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Australians have welcomed news of Prime Minister Albanese’s engagement to partner Jodie Haydon. They may also be wondering if the PM living as a married man will result in more family-friendly policies for the nation.

The day after Valentine’s Day, Australian Prime Minister Anthony Albanese, 60, announced his engagement to his partner of three years, Jodie Haydon. He had popped the question to Ms Haydon the night before during a dinner date at The Lodge.

“We are thrilled. It is such a joy to be able to share this news with people,” Mr Albanese told cameras while standing with his new fiancée outside the official PM residence on Thursday.

“It’s wonderful that I’ve found a partner who I want to spend the rest of my life with. (Wednesday) night was a very great occasion here at The Lodge and we couldn’t be more happy.”

First, congratulations Mr Albanese and Ms Haydon!

As someone who also waited longer than the average person to find and marry my bride, I can relate to the well-earned joy and contentment of finding a wonderful soulmate.

Seeing a prime minister propose while in high office is uncharted territory for Australians, for whom this week’s events represent a number of other unusual firsts. As reported by The Australian:

This will be Mr Albanese’s second time down the aisle. He was previously married to former NSW deputy premier Carmel Tebbutt until 2019. The couple share one son, Nathan, 23.

This will be the first time an Australian prime minister will ­potentially be married while in ­office. All previous leaders, except former Labor leader Julia Gillard and the former Country Party’s John McEwen, had spouses.

Ms Haydon, 45, has never been married.

Until recent times, it was a given that the person elected as head of state of a Western nation was married, and had likely already started a family, too.

But, as we are still learning all these decades on, the Sexual Revolution changed everything — even this.

Today, the phenomenon of the footloose-and-fancy-free president, the single-and-ready-to-mingle chancellor, or the dating, de facto and then engaged prime minister is par for the course.

The former prime ministers of the UK and New Zealand, Boris Johnson and Jacinda Ardern respectively, are two of the more obvious examples in recent times. Twice-divorced Johnson married his live-in girlfriend while occupying 10 Downing Street, while Ardern’s time in office included a pregnancy and a birth and an engagement.

But there are many others.

At least four incumbent European prime ministers were elected while unmarried — including Pedro Sánchez of Spain, Alexander De Croo of Belgium, Mark Rutte of the Netherlands, and Denmark’s Mette Frederiksen. Some have since tied the knot.

There was also 37-year-old Finnish Prime Minister Sanna Marin, who also got married while in office and infamously brought the party to the Social Democratic Party — before abruptly resigning last year and filing for divorce just months later.

And don’t get me started on gay heads of state, who are a genre all of their own, with plenty of drama to boot.

All this to say, it is becoming increasingly difficult for Westerners to expect family values from heads of state who don’t obviously possess them.

If our leaders see marriage as every colour of the rainbow and optional at best, how can we expect to see policies that locate solid marriages and stable families at the centre of national life?

If our leaders aren’t parents, what interest do they have — beyond polling data and focus groups — in robust parental rights and other needs unique to parents?

If our leaders don’t have families, how can they understand the chaos and heartbreak felt by families when drugs are legalised, genders are confused, housing is unaffordable and streets are violent?

God knows, in 2024, Australia is experiencing all of this and much, much more.

So while I am very happy for Mr Albanese, I also have a question for him.

Now that you have embarked on life as a family (albeit of two), can we hope for more family values now?

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Republished with thanks to Mercator. Image courtesy of X.