The Value of Pre-Marriage Education
by Nicola Batten
This World Marriage Day (Sunday 8 February) is a fitting time to reflect on the significance of preparing for the lifelong commitment of marriage.
It is a journey that begins long before the wedding day, and pre-marriage education can play a vital role in setting the stage for a strong and enduring partnership.
Research underscores the value of preparation. One study found that couples who engage in relationship education and counselling are 80 per cent happier, on average, than those who do not.
Other research published in 2017 found that couples who participated in pre-marriage programs reported 30 per cent higher relationship satisfaction and were significantly more likely to stay together long-term.
Meanwhile, figures from the Australian Bureau of Statistics indicate that one in three Australian marriages end in divorce, with communication issues being one of the most cited reasons.
While no course can eliminate every challenge, studies suggest that pre-marriage education can reduce the likelihood of divorce by up to 31 per cent, equipping couples with the skills to navigate difficulties together.
Why consider pre-marriage education?
Participating in pre-marriage education offers couples:
- A chance to strengthen their connection and understanding of each other.
- Insights from trained relationship educators and counsellors.
- Evidence-based strategies for building a fulfilling and lasting marriage.
- A safe and supportive space to discuss future plans.
- Deeper personal awareness and understanding of communication styles and family backgrounds.
Voices of experience
Many couples who have participated in pre-marriage education provided by CatholicCare Sydney describe it as a valuable experience offering fresh perspectives and the opportunity to renew their appreciation for each other.
“Being together for a long time, you sometimes forget the small things that you and your partner need. This course was a great refresher on how to nurture our relationship,” said one recent participant.
Another participant shared:
“We went in thinking we already knew each other so well, but the sessions gave us tools and insights that we hadn’t even considered. It made us feel more confident about our future together.”
Celebrating the commitment
World Marriage Day is a tribute to lifelong love and commitment, but it also serves as a reminder that strong relationships don’t just happen. They’re built with care, understanding, and mutual effort.
Taking the time to strengthen your bond before saying “I do” is not about anticipating problems; it’s about investing in a future together with clarity and confidence.
Pre-marriage education isn’t about changing who you are as a couple; it’s about enhancing the love and connection you already share. Whether you’re newly engaged or have been together for years, setting aside time for intentional reflection can only strengthen your relationship.
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Republished with thanks to The Catholic Weekly. Image courtesy of Adobe.
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When we got married in the 80s we were talked into going to a Roman Catholic pre marriage counseling thing by my wifes family.
I have never even to this day had anyone asking me and my wife such perverted questions as to what we may have or not done sexually. We left and never went back to the counseling nor the church.
Do people really need to have others tell them how to love another?
Is there really a one size fits all approach that someone you both don’t know from a bar of soap tells you how to live!
Bit like creepy sex counselors.
The Bible doesn’t suffice?