Child Brides

Child Brides and Too-Early Sexual Activity

17 November 2021

3.9 MINS

Child brides – the practice of marrying off young girls to older men – is still prevalent in many parts of the world. But it comes at great cost for the girls. This is a practice that must be stopped.

Recently, the world read with horror about the death of a Yemeni 8-year-old child bride who died of internal bleeding and uterine rupture on her wedding night to a man five times her age. According to United Nations and other reports, nearly 14 per cent of Yemeni girls are married before age 15 and more than half before the age of 18.

Ironically, the issue of child marriage, like abortion, is a dilemma for the left. The left is opposed to sex-selection abortions but works toward universal abortion-on-demand. Likewise, the left is against child marriage. Still, it is committed to “defend the rights of all young people to enjoy their sexual lives free from ill health, unwanted pregnancy, violence and discrimination.”

The Left’s Shaky Foundation

Something especially problematic for the left is that while opposing marriage before age 18, they advise teens “who are going to have sex anyway” that it’s better to use condoms and engage in “safe sex.” For the left, then, child marriage is the problem, not that the girls are engaging in sexual activity at too young an age. Let’s be very clear: most caring adults oppose child marriage – which is almost always forced or coerced – as “socially licensed sexual abuse and exploitation of a child.”

However, the problems of child marriage extend far beyond the left’s lament that girls forced to marry as children do not have “power in sexual decision making.” The left identifies “the fear and stigma attached to premarital sex and bearing children outside marriage” as a significant reason parents force their girl-child into marriage. Of course, the left identifies other reasons for parents to force a child marriage. Still, it seems that most organisations from the left are bothered more by the marriage of a girl child than by her too-early sexual initiation.

So, sex is fine as long as the girl doesn’t bear a child or get married too young to handle the responsibilities of being a wife and mother. Also, the left is concerned that child marriage undermines the possibility that the U.N.’s Millennium Development Goals will be realised. Further, the left is bothered by the “cultural, societal and customary norms that shape and govern the institution of marriage and family life.” These norms are cited as a reason for the absence of “political will” to address child marriage.

In other words, cultural norms that push marriage are wrong, but we need to change cultural norms so that teens can engage in premarital sex.

Both the left and the right, however, agree that child marriage should be eliminated.

Child Brides Around the World

Sometimes, such unions begin with betrothals of toddlers or babies. Millions of girls are married in the developing world while they are still children, some barely past puberty. Though accurate data is difficult to get, experts estimate that 100 million girls in the developing world will be married before age 18. The practise is common in Africa, the Middle East, Latin America, and parts of South Asia. Today, 51 million girls under 17 in developing countries are married.

Most of these marriages are formed because the community expects them, and often, they are forced or coerced. While the practice is common in diverse cultures, the cultures are generally poor, and those who practice child marriage are generally the poorest of the poor. There are five “hotspots” – impoverished areas of Nicaragua, Mali, India, Nigeria, and Ethiopia – where 25 per cent to 50 per cent of the girls are married by age 15.

The child brides suffer a common experience – an abrupt end to childhood. Many of the daughters are only nine or 10 when they are married off. They have to drop out of school; nine out of 10 married girls cannot read in Mali. Further, sexual activity and childbearing are health risks at these young ages.

Sadly, some parents who marry off their young daughters are trying to shed an economic burden. Girls living in poor households (lower 40th percentile) are approximately twice as likely to marry before 18 than girls in better-off families (upper 20th percentile). In sub-Saharan Africa, the practice is common. In Senegal, a poor girl is more than four times as likely to be a child bride as her wealthier peers. A study of early marriage in sub-Saharan Africa found that a child bride is 75 per cent more likely to be HIV-positive than sexually active unmarried girls in Kenya and Zambia.

Other parents think that they are providing a brighter future for their daughters, but the facts show that girls in poverty who marry young are likely to remain poor. In some countries, dowry and bride wealth determine the bride’s age by giving a financial incentive for marrying girls early. In other instances, families offer their girls to wealthier neighbours to attain higher standing in the community.

The Challenge Before Us

The future of child brides is dim. Girls under age 15 are five times more likely to die in childbirth than those in their 20s. Pregnancy is the leading cause of death for women ages 15-to-19 worldwide. Over two million women worldwide suffer from obstetric fistula, a complication of childbirth prevalent among physically immature girls. The United Nations Population Fund reports that fistula patients are commonly poor women ages 15-to-20, many of whom report early marriage.

The majority of child brides are married to significantly older men. A Tufts University study revealed that child marriages in Afghanistan were common even though the minimum legal age of marriage is 16. Nationwide, 16 per cent of girls are married before 15.

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights is clear: Marriage should be “entered only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses.” That puts a burden of responsibility on nations to ensure that child marriage ends. It can be done. Countries like South Korea, Taiwan, and Thailand have stopped the practice of child marriage over the last generation. Other nations should follow their example to end the abuse of little girls known as “child marriage.”

Originally published at American Thinker. Photo via Pulitzer Center.

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