International Men’s Day Largest Global Presentation to Stop Men’s Suicide, Parliament House, Australia
We were taken by surprise. Nat and I were talking when we were interrupted by a young man with tears in his eyes, pointing at our sign. He was about 30 years of age, and he stammered out the question, “What is this all about?” between sobs. Speaking quietly, I said, “We are here outside Parliament House to help save men’s lives by working towards Zero Male Suicide.”
You see, we were setting up our Zero Male Suicide International Men’s Day sign outside Parliament House in Canberra, with 20 other charities who had united around the common cause of working towards stopping male suicide. He offered some further explanation: “My brother has been on suicide watch with our family for the last three months. We think we have talked him out of it, but only time will tell. What you are doing is so important.”
My new friend continued, “I am standing for the ACT Parliament at the elections next year, and stopping male suicide will be my number one priority if I get elected. We need the federal government to do the same and all state governments to stand with them.”
I said to my new friend, “Paul Withall, the coordinator of the 2,500 Shoes Men’s Suicide Presentation event outside Parliament House, feels exactly the same way. He is asking for a Minister for Men’s Health and Welfare. The team at Dads4Kids have been asking for much the same for the last 20 years. It is all recorded in our 12Pt Plan Father & Families policy document. It is number one of the twelve.” See Paul’s presentation and the story of the day in the video below.
The memory came rushing back of the day I was interrupted at work by a woman’s screams. “Help me, please!” she screamed. “My brother has hung himself underneath my house. He needs help.” My mate and I were working on a building site across the road, so it wasn’t far to go, but it was too late.
Her trauma and her desperate cries for help still haunt me. You see, men are crying for help, but their voice is just not heard. That’s why men like Paul Withall are so important. As Henry David Thoreau said, “The mass of men lead lives of quite desperation.” The good news is the 2,500 Empty Shoes Presentation outside Parliament House in Canberra is giving men a voice.
This is the second year that Dads4Kids has help sponsor the 2,500 Empty Shoes Male Suicide Presentation at Parliament House in Canberra, an observance of International Men’s Day. This year, the team at Dads4Kids gave Paul Withall the 2023 International Men’s Day Australian Courage Award for his amazing work on promoting the desperate need to reverse the silent epidemic of male suicide in Australia.
Preventable Deaths
Sadly, globally every year, 452,000 men commit suicide. Almost twice as many men kill themselves, compared to women. On average in Western countries, for every one woman who commits suicide, tragically, 3-4 men take their own lives.
Professor Dan Bilsker states that we are in the middle of ‘a silent epidemic of male suicide’. Dr Rob Whitley says, “New, male-friendly suicide prevention measures must be adopted to help halt the crisis.” Rob is right — our current approach is not dealing with the situational reality of male suicide.
Bettina Arndt points out in her article, “Lynching of Men is Our National Sport”, where the big problem lies.
“We now have solid proof that mental health problems are not the key risk factor for male suicide for one of our major groups of vulnerable men. For the first time, this year the Australian Bureau of Crime Statistics published statistics based on coroners’ reports showing relationship/family breakdown is the major suicide trigger for family men — men in their peak child-raising years from 25-44.
Here’s what the ABS said:
The top risk factor for males aged 25-44 years was problems in spousal relationships circumstances, present in over one-third of suicides. Problems in spousal relationships overtook mood disorders as the top risk factor in this age group for the first time and can include separation and divorce as well as arguments and domestic violence situations.
Here you go. We’re talking family law issues, men under fire in our increasingly hostile family law system, facing the risk of losing their children, home and assets, and the stress of monstrous legal costs. Plus ‘domestic violence situations’, which often means false allegations.
Our current, failing suicide prevention policies are ignoring both the key target group and one of the key causes of suicide. No wonder we are doing badly.”
Lovework
One suicide is one too many. Together, we can work towards zero male suicide. One of the ways you can do this is to sign this petition organised by Amanda Sillars from the Eeny Meeny Miney Mo foundation in support of a Minister for Men and Boys. Amanda has a tonne of heart, so she is doing this as a private citizen. See her in the above video. The details and the wording for the petition are found here. Please sign the petition to the Australian Senate for a Minister for Men and Boys, found at this link.
Helping Men and Boys,
Warwick Marsh
PS: If you want to reach out direct to Paul Withall to offer your help, find him at the Zerosuicide Community Awareness Program. Mobile: 0457 100 010 | Email | Facebook
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Originally published at Dads4Kids.
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Warwick, this is a tremendous post! Thank you so much for being part of the ‘demonstration’. I am also so thrilled with the Daily Declaration for ‘getting the word out’ as sadly, the MSM seem oblivious, and blind to the present reality.
The tyrannical leftists who have infiltrated our government, public service, medical and educational institutions hate the family because strong fathers will fight to bring up their children to be psychologically stable and morally responsible even though they are surrounded with decadence and corruption. Men are under attack.
Eliminate the Family Court with its deep seated endemic corruption and destruction of family values and integrity. Men are set-up for persecution and financial destruction while losing all contact with their sons and daughters. A rigged court that results in State control of children quarrantined from contact with their fathers. Suicide rates would drop dramatically. Replace with :
1. Direct long chats between parents and stay with it until you reach agreement. I f it doesnt work the first time you go back and do it again and again and again – until you reach agreement. 2. Have a go-between ‘McKenzie’ friend – someone you preferably both have a relationship with. They either attend with you, or attend on your behalf in these in a face – to- face communication 3. Use an official mediation process such as Relationships Australia or Conscious Uncoupling programs run by psychologists 4. They will tell you it won’t work or can’t be done – Do Not listen. Family Court is what destroys and will never end up well – especially for the father